By Hygiene Institute statistics from 2014 to 2017 in Lithuania 3398 people have killed themselves. This tragic statistic touches us all, especially suicidals relatives. Psychologists say, that it is very important to understand their loss. After accident, friends, family, often can not understant, what happened and it is hard for them to come back to normal life, to a routine without the lost person. One of Vilnius University students, Grete Maziliauskaite, stood up to a situation like this, when her grandfather killed himself : „I remember it like that – it was a very usual morning, I was getting ready for my lectures and then my mother suddenly called me. Her voice was shaking and she was crying, and then said to me these words: we lost our grandfather. At that moment it was so hard to understand what is happening, I was so scared and lost at the same moment. My Grandmother found him, even tried to bring him back to life by herself, but it was too late. Grandpa was long gone“. A lot of relatives, friends, after suicide start to accuse themselves, they are feeling guilty, that they didn‘t see it earlier, ignored the signs: „After Grandpas death, I started asking myself and tried to remember the past, if I skiped something, that he said for us, started to search for a sign. But he was always very good and attentive. Every single time, when I came to their home, he was and waiting for me in his car, at the bus stop, ready to pick me up. We used to watch lottery and other TV shows together and laught. He was so good, but, I guess, deeply in his heart, after his cousins death, he felt lonely and sad, but never showed this to us. My mother and grandmother blamed themselves for not noticing anything, for not calling him more often and not saying the right last words to him.“ Doctors also say, that one of the biggest problems is that people are not talking about their problems with their relatives, friends, they are afraid of it, afraid of what people could think of your situation. They hide everything inside and after awhile they get tired of living like this. Acording to statistics 111 of 118 people (age 16-24), would definitely help someone, who is thinking of killing himself, they said, that they would definately talk with them about their problems. The most important part is talking. Not hiding everything inside, but talking about your feelings with others. Grete also said, that „It is very important to talk about how you feel. I went to lectures about suicides and how to understand the signs. I started to realize grandpas words, he was telling for me“. It is very important to talk about problems and your thoughs, not hiding everything inside you. Thoughts about suicide. Depression. Loneliness. Deep in a heart, every depressed person wants to be saved and live.